Lesbians who like men
Firstly on the topic of wlw erotica and media in general, you may detect Autostraddle a good place to start. There are lots of great media recommendations (both your "regular" books, films and TV shows with queer women in them, and sexually explicit content) , and they do have an erotica series they host themselves under their A+ banner.
You may find that different formats of erotica, porn etc. do or don't do things for you, so potentially erotica more your thing when it comes to arousal than visual porn. Also, yes it is quite normal to have things that you enjoy fantasizing about but wouldn't need to do in actual life, as Heather mentions in our article "Yes, No, Maybe, a
BY KALI MUNRO, , Psychotherapist, | Originally published in Siren, Feb/March
Do you think that it is possible to be lesbian and sexually attracted to men? What about lesbians who acquire sexual fantasies that include men? Or lesbians who own relationships only with women and occasionally have sex with a man? If you have any of these feelings or experiences, you are not alone, and they don&#;t have to diminish your lesbian identity.
On the other hand, if the mind of one or all of these upset or wrath you, you are not alone, either. As lesbians, we can be sensitive about these issues, and with excellent reason.
UNDERSTANDING WHY SOME LESBIANS ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE TOPIC
It&#;s not hard to understand why some lesbians might not trust lesbians or bisexual women who include men in their sex lives. In a nature where we are told that womxn loving womxn relationships are a fad, a phase, less significant than straight relationships, don&#;t last, are unhappy, unstable, and lacking because there is no male involvement, and that all we need is a &#;good fuck,&#; it can be hard to sense open to le
Thisquestionoriginally appeared on Quora: Why execute lesbians often like masculine women, yet have no attraction to men of equal masculinity/femininity?
Answer by Erica Friedman, The Librarian is IN, 5₵
This question starts with a presumption - lesbians fancy masculine women. This is not generalizably true.
Masculinity is not what lesbians like. Lesbians like women. Really that's the only representative we all incontrovertibly have in common.
Some lesbians like masculine women, some lesbians are masculine women.
So, the assumption underlying the question just isn't true. But, setting that aside
So why act some women like masculine women? Let's talk about one of the straightest things I've ever enjoyed Takarazuka.
Takarazuka is, for the purposes of our discussion today, an all-female musical theater troupe. The troupe and the school associated with it split the actresses into women who play female roles, called musumeyaku and women who play the male roles, called otokoyaku. According to the Takarazuka organization, there is nothing at all same-sex attracted about the actress
Are gay men more trendy than lesbians?
I say this becauseas I was going through youtube I noticed an interesting trend- Over-the-top, ranting gay men are really popular. Luan, Kingsley, they are all gender non-conforming men who have channels on youtube where they post videos of them rantingabout anything. And I notice a complete lack of queer gals with popular youtube channels. And then I started thinking about queer female charactersthere aren&#;t bunch that I can think of. For gay men I could at least think of stock characters and more developed characters.
Wtf is going on? It seems the only "lesbians" shown are the horny colleges girls trying to impress ze dudes. Where are all my legit lessies at?
Or are lgbtq+ men just the default gay character, as men in general tend to be the default "human/hero/protagonist". :\