Straight men wearing panties

Is it normal if my boyfriend likes to wear women&#;s underwear?

Dear Wondering in TX,

Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, you'll think to yourself: "Wait, is what I'm doing normal?" The word "normal" is open to interpretation, but sex play or activities that are consensual and unharmful are definitely normal. Since you said in your letter that you like it when your partner wears your underwear, there is absolutely nothing unhealthy or abnormal about your guy wearing your panties. 

Think of it this way: Considering that much of women's underwear is lace, satin or silk, and men's underwear is usually cotton, it's not surprising that there are men who prefer women's underwear. There are women who prefer to wear men's boxers or briefs, and men who opt for to wear women's panties. Your lover might also prefer having a "piece" of you with him when he's out and about, and it's amazing that you assume it's sexy.

"Crossdressing," which is generally defined as wearing the clothes of the opposite sex, is not indicative of homosexuality. Some queer men and lesbians choose to cross

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Although it’s not a topic that’s often discussed in the mainstream, many men prefer to wear women’s panties over traditional men’s underwear. Today, women’s panties aren’t only worn by cross dressers and transgender women, but they’re also growing in popularity among everyday heterosexual men. This is often because they find panties more comfortable than boxers, boxer briefs, trunks, and other men’s underwear styles. Many straight men are ruling that they simply select the soft and silky fabrics, skin-hugging comfort and less bulky cuts that women’s panties offer.

Shopping for panties that support and fit the male figure properly can require some trial and error. After all, women’s panties approach in a much larger variety of cuts, styles, fabrics, patterns, and colors than men’s underwear. So, finding the right pair for you can be tricky at first but when you do, you may find that you love the difference.

Whether you’re interested in trying a pair of women’s panties for the first second or want to include something new and alternative to your existing panty wardro

Re: Any straight men wear female panties?

Postby David_NC »

I've never tried my wife's underwear, especially since some of mine are actually skimpier than hers. I have to agree with Tanga on this, I know there are several in the forum that have tried and perform purchase and wear female panties for their personal pleasure (regardless of sexual preference). Many hold stated, the price, the sizing, the cut, the material, fabric and the list goes on But, men have some excellent choices by some very talented designers that make everything from the full cut bikini to the skimpiest of thongs. For men to purchase those styles though, we do have to shop online unless you are fortunate enough to live in a city that has a men's underwear specialty store. If you like and prefer a ladies brand - more control to you and enjoy - but if you have never tried ones for men, I would suggest something from JM, or N2N, or Jack Adams. I once worried that male brands would lose customer found, shut down, and we men that enjoy the skimpier chop would have to wear ladies - but it seems the opposite is happe

I Found My Husband’s Panties and Toys. What Else Could He Be Hiding?

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Dear How to Undertake It, 

My husband has a fetish for wearing ladies’ underwear. I found this out by chance, via some not-particularly-well-hidden photos of him in feminine clothing on his computer. I also found a poorly hidden box of women’s underwear in a very large size and a bag of various anal sex toys that wound up being his.

As you can imagine, I was amazed. His behavior and appearance are not particularly feminine. At first, I thought he was principal some kind of confidential double life, so I asked him for an explanation. Here’s what he said: 1) It used to be a kink for him in the past, but he hasn’t been interested in it for a long second. 2) He used to pursue this, but only privately, for himself. 3) I shouldn’t worry because he can just “unlearn the fetish.”

I’m not so sure about that. I also found out that it hasn’t been that long since he’s ordered toys (—we started digital dating about the same t